by atai @ 21:17 | Filed under: baby

It has been more than a week since Seraphine passed away.
Both Mrs Tai and myself are still adjusting to the fact that our baby passed away just after two days due to lung complications as a result of the congenital diaphragmatic hernia. Both of us are now still at home, being there for each other and to get through this together. Once again, I have to say that we are very glad to have so many relatives and friends who are there to lend a helping hand, an ear, etc… It makes going through all these a lot easier.
I would be lying if I said otherwise… We still miss Seraphine very much…
Dear Adrian
My condolences to you and your wife.
In the arms of Angels someone leaves.
Here on earth someone grieves.
In just moments from now,
A beautiful mystery somehow,
Someone stands at heavens gate,
Filled with happiness as they wait.
No more pain nor tears,
Only treasured memories of their years.
Down here we’re holding on,
We can’t accept they’re gone.
Weeping as we call their name,
Our lives will never be the same.
Someone stands at the gate to heaven,
As tragedy struck our world again.
In time we’ll begin to understand,
The Angels took our loved one’s hand.
They softly whispered God is love,
And He’s waiting up above.
God’s love has called for them,
To heaven’s gate to meet him.
They’ll enter heaven’s gate together
Where love lives forever.
Comment by Gai — Friday, 13 June, 2008 @ 4:07
I’m so sorry to hear about this news. My heart and sincere condolences goes out to you and Mrs Tai. You still have reach other and always remember that.
Little Seraphine is in a better place now. May she bless both of you always from up above.
Comment by blusher — Friday, 13 June, 2008 @ 10:41
my condolence. no words can describe the painful journey you two are going through now….be strong…
do drop by this site…..learn more about accepting the unthinkable.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisabeth_K%C3%BCbler-Ross
Comment by tengster — Friday, 13 June, 2008 @ 11:28
My deepest condolences to you and your wife.
Comment by anttyk — Saturday, 14 June, 2008 @ 2:16
Dear Adrian
My deepest condolence to you/wife and family. I am saddend but i think you need to be strong to the future
Take care
Comment by Raymond — Sunday, 15 June, 2008 @ 20:21
Dear Adrian and wife,
Seraphine, a beautiful girl will always remembering in our heart. Be strong and take care.
Comment by Shirley and family — Monday, 16 June, 2008 @ 10:44
My deepest condolence to you and Mrs Tai. I hope that you are feeling much better now. Both of you have to be strong. Seraphine is now your guarding angels in heaven.
Comment by Precious Pea — Monday, 16 June, 2008 @ 16:08
It is ok to grief. no reason to hide it. no matter what people say, take your time. time will be your friend for now. it’s ok not to be strong now. you will be again i’m sure.
Comment by Joodey — Tuesday, 17 June, 2008 @ 15:13
i believe no uttered words could replace that void for you and mrs tai, but God has His reasons in everything, and I’d like to believe that this time around, it’s for the best of Seraphine, maybe so she won’t have to suffer even more than she already did… whatever the reason is, have faith in God’s plan and believe that He knows best…
thanks for sharing this photo of little Seraphine…
I don’t think it’s about forgetting, but about more accepting, as I don’t believe that any amount of time will ever be able to wash this away…
God bless, and take care…
Comment by ShannonC. — Thursday, 19 June, 2008 @ 0:13
Dearest Adrian,
I got the news from Rebecca. I am really sorry and my deepest condolence to you and your wife.
Be strong, and remember that she is in a better place now…
God Bless you both!
Comment by Sofina — Thursday, 19 June, 2008 @ 13:35
thank you to everyone for all the wishes…
though she is no longer physically with us, we still wanted to share with everyone how cute (and chubby) Seraphine looked.
her weight was 3.2kg… i m quite sure that’s Mrs Tai’s genes…
Comment by atai — Friday, 20 June, 2008 @ 21:47
Hi Adrian,
Am Tee Hui’s friend, whom you know as Mosquito Girl (if you remember).
Just want to say take care, ya?
Comment by Jing..xx — Tuesday, 24 June, 2008 @ 14:57
Dear Adrian and XF
My deepest condonlences to you and your family. You have to be strong to take care of XF, both of you are still young and may have many children later. Both Adrian and Ivan feel so sad about Seraphine and ask me to send their regards to you. Do take care
Comment by Janice and Family — Wednesday, 25 June, 2008 @ 15:53
sorry to hear that adrian. my deepest condolence to you and your family.
Comment by KNizam — Wednesday, 25 June, 2008 @ 22:31
mosquito girl… of coz i remember… hahaha…
janice and family… thanks and send my regards to adrian and ivan…
thanks, knizam…
thank you, everyone…
Comment by atai — Friday, 27 June, 2008 @ 12:35
Dear Adrian & Mrs. Tai,
Im sorry for what happened to your daughter. She is beautiful I know she is a angel in heaven.
Take care ..
Comment by glacial — Friday, 4 July, 2008 @ 16:40